47 posts categorized "General Stuff"

Istan-beauti-ful

Bakertaa Had an amazing week last week accompanying Ron Baker (VeraSage founder) to Istanbul for a presentation to the Turkish Advertising Association.

Ron introduced Value Pricing in a presentation called Creating and Capturing Value to a group of about 80 people. These were ad agency owners and executives and I was delighted to see that the average age was probably about mid-30s, and women outnumbered the men in the room. As such, the concepts were well received. Many international agencies were represented.

What impressed me most was that the group didn't ask all the "how?" questions we usually get. Instead they asked really good "when" questions.

Of course people always want to know who else is doing this. No matter how long or short the list is, the audience is never quite satisfied with the answer. I'm seeing Ron's point that it doesn't matter who's doing it or not. If you know in your gut that the approach makes sense, why be concerned with who and how many are already doing this?

Turkishcoffee I'd like to think this question is because they're keen to position themselves for competitive advantage. But the reality is most who ask this are waiting for the others to leap first.

As Ron spoke, the audience was inspired with new methods of increasing the focus on providing value to their clients through innovation and creativity, and through aligning their work with their clients' definitions of success. Perhaps ad agencies are more inclined to adopt value pricing sooner than accounting and law because their career satisfaction is more tied to their creativity and effectiveness than their hours billed. I think they are hungry to align themselves with their advertisers.

I'm encouraged by the spirit of interest I saw. And there were several publications represented each of whom interviewed Ron. One was the Turkish Economist, another the largest Turkish newspaper Hurriyet, and the third, a key sponsor, MediaCat (site in Turkish).

It was an honor to be Ron's entourage on this trip. And I thank our fabulous hosts, Aygen and Alev in particular, for their warm welcome and thoughtfulness in every detail of our trip. Alev, our tour guide and a delightful lady, took this shot of Ron and I at a coffee bar where we had amazing Turkish coffees.

Carnival of Trust - Feb 08

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There's something pretty cool about hosting this carnival on Mardi Gras...the concluding day of perhaps the most well-known carnival of all!

And it is remarkable that Mardi Gras goes on despite the destruction unleashed from Hurricane Katrina. I'd like to take pause and appreciate the spirit of trust by New Orleanians that Mardi Gras would (unquestionably, if you ask them) go on. And trust that New Orleans would rebound and rebuild.

This progress despite political strife, despite skepticism of others, and even somewhat despite reason (hey, I hate to say it, but we all know another storm could come).

Isn't this an amazing illustration of the sheer power of trust in what will be, and trust's sister, faith, in the ability to achieve/be/do.

On to the winning posts (there were so many to choose from!) for this month's carnival!

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EARN “TRUSTED ADVISOR” STATUS

A regular teacher of lively and controversial ethics courses around the USA (a typically dull continuing ed. requirement for CPAs) Ron Baker repeatedly challenges professionals to reconsider how they view “trust” in their profession. In his post “Is Being a Trusted Advisor Enough?” he says “many firm leaders seem to believe that trust is a core competency of their profession.” He says it’s not. Sure, it’s required, but as a table stake like technical competency.

He adds: “…it is a mistake for any firm to advertise or market its trustworthiness.” That so many firms self-proclaim “trusted advisor” status (certainly a worthy aspiration which Charles Green, David Maister and Robert Galford described in their book of the same name) is an unfortunate and ironic side effect of the popular book. Self-proclaiming trustworthiness demonstrates misunderstanding of the very points these gentlemen made in their writings.

When it comes to trust, Ron reminds us: “Those who talk about it, injure it, and are perceived less believable. Your reputation, like trust, is based on what other people say about you.”

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INVISIBLE WALL OF DISTRUST

Talking about buyers, Mark Slatin discusses the seller’s need to overcome the elephant in the room he defines as the “invisible wall of distrust.” He artfully describes the wall’s development, “One brick at a time, year after year, it was built with the mortar of false promises and layers of incompetence.” In other words, we all bear the burden of breaking through perception caused, in great part, by the actions (or inactions) of those who preceded us. Bummer.

To help us in this massive undertaking, Slatin provides us with his Five Pillars of Trust: Transparency, Reliability, Understanding, Sincerity, and Transform. I appreciate his points supporting the first four, especially Transparency and Sincerity, though I find Transform a little broad. But read it and see what you think.

UNVARNISHED TRUTH

Speaking of transparency, another sales post really stands out. I was always baffled when people would say, “everyone lies on their resume,” because I never did. I’ll bet Suzanne Lowe never did, either. In “I Told the Truth and Got Hired Anyway,” she shares stories of having been so honest in her “pitch” (that time in which people are practically expected to stretch the truth!) that she somewhat baffled her prospects. She confessed she didn’t have similar prior experience.

The result? They asked her the most important question that could have been asked: “Uh… well… then, what makes you think you could help us?” – a question that is not for the faint of heart under any circumstances. Like Suzanne, do lots of good prep to field the question well.

BRANDING RESPONSIBLE FOR CORPORATE DE-PERSONALIZATION?

A post by Louise Manning at The Human Imprint contains a great list of ways to build market trust and shows why personalizing the corporate body is part of this effort. I agree with her there is a need/demand for both corporations and their people (business leaders) to be positive, real, authentic [and accessible!], etc.

However, I'm not sure I agree with Ms. Manning's drawn conclusion that it was the trend of focus on branding strategies that eroded our trust of those corporate leaders. I see the cause and effect somewhat differently. IMHO, the current state has much to do with distrust (and weariness) of corporate hype and fluff which isn't the same thing as branding. A brand might be proposed by a company, but it is only becomes a true and validated brand when sustained, thus created, by the buyer. This doesn't occur without consumer trust in the consistency of the brand.

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BUILDING TEAM TRUST

I’m really digging J.D. Meier’s review (at The Book Share blog) of one of my favorite management reads: The Five Dysfunctions of a Team: A Leadership Fable by Patrick Lencioni.

A key point is that a team is most effective when operating at a level of “vulnerability-based trust” versus the primarily superficial level of experience-based trust we experience when we trust someone based on predictability due to past-performance. Lencioni does an amazing job of explaining the deeper level of (work-based) intimacy that is required for teams to hit peak performance together.

I highly recommend this excellent recap of a phenomenal book, and then read (or re-read) the book.

IF YOU WANT IT DONE RIGHT, DO IT YOURSELF??

Almost the polar opposite is illustrated in a post entitled "If You Don’t Assume Responsibility, Who Will?" in which David Bohl essentially tells us two things. First: take personal responsibility with especially good advice about mindset when fielding an issue involving any aspect of your company not with blame, but with ownership.

He breaks responsibility down… “response-ability” and shows us that if it’s “my” problem I can fix it! If it’s not our problem, we have the opportunity to be helpless, don’t we? I REALLY like that he says “If I’m responsible, if it’s *my* problem, then I can fix it….But if “you’re” responsible, I’m not able to…it’s not my problem to fix.”  (He still totally had me at that point. But then…)

Secondly, he advises handling things yourself to make sure you always have the responsibility. Yikes! Isn't this distrust? "Doing it oneself" could very well be related to a common leadership connundrum, couldn't it? Not trusting our apprentices, or even our partners, to do what they ought to? Egads. Rather than grab an assignment back when it looks like it’s going—or gone—south, it seems an optimal training opportunity to teach responsibility and the accompanying sense of accountability and pride in one’s work.

Sorry, David, there’s definitely wisdom in the post's emphasis on personal accountability (and we do need more of it in this world!), but I worry that letting others off the hook doesn’t help build a sustainable organization.

HOMELOANS & CHEESE

If you've ever wondered what mortgage lending and cheese have in common, Wally Bock strings it all together (sorry, couldn't resist) on his post "Requiem for Cheese and Simple Trust."

He explains why trust is natural and human and how we've removed that element, much to our detriment, with slick systems and automated approaches.

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FACEBOOK’S VALUE BASED ON TRUST

Facebook strives to recover from its user-response to Beacon, a perceived (and certainly potential) trust breaching tool to track activities and, yes, user’s KEYWORDS (!) to predict needs and elevate advertising relevance. Oops.

As Jason Voiovich at State of the Brand 2008 mused:

What Facebook really did was butt up against the limits of its brand capital; quite literally, the trust users place in the platform to connect with friends in an online community in a free and open way. That is the true “brand” of Facebook….To the extent that Facebook loses that trust, its value deteriorates and so does its value to the advertisers.

US FOREIGN POLICY IS BASED ON…TRUST??

Martini Revolution illustrates: watch how you toss around the “T” word lest you be labeled a hypocrite. Last week’s State of the Union Address is the topic of his post, “Mr. Bush, you keep using that word ‘trust.’” Alex (not a big fan of the prez) is a bit heated pointing out: “Extraordinary that [Bush—expletive omitted] who trusts no one would use “trust” as the cornerstone of his final State of the Union Address.”

Indeed, Mr. Bush tells us “we must trust” in many things: free people and people who will choose freedom when given a chance; American homeowners; patients; doctors; students; American workers; researchers; scientists; those with innovative spirits, good hearts, etc.

He says our foreign policy, in fact, is based on “a clear premise” of trust. Really? It is?? I must have missed that.

I’m reminded of Ronald Reagan’s words in his moving speech* at Moscow State University in 1988: “I have often said: Nations do not distrust each other because they are armed; they are armed because they distrust each other.” Anyway, maybe it’s safe to say: don’t say it if you don’t do it.

* Reagan's speech is shared in its entirety in Ron Baker’s latest book, Mind Over Matter (Wiley, 2008)

TRUSTING YOUR CANDIDATE MATTERS MOST

Thinking more toward the future presidency, Paul McCord offers up "A Brief Lesson in Sales from Presidential Politics" in which he observes that having a sense of "trust" for a candidate is more important in this election than beliefs, issue stance, likability, and experience. On this important primary election day, do you agree?

I can buy that. We all know that positions change and we're learning that openness about a change can override any negative impact of the change itself.

But can trust really be sold or marketed?  Baker says no (above) and I tend to agree, but it sure sounds like the candidates are trying. Especially thinking of McCain's huge new "Trust" campaign launched yesterday. Guess we'll have to wait for the final chapter to see how this one plays out.

So go eat some King Cake, catch some beads, and drink a hurricane or two...Happy Fat Tuesday!

Past Carnivals of Trust are found at Charles Green's Trusted Advisor Associates website. Read them all here: http://trustedadvisor.com/carnivalofTrust/

Merry Christmas from Golden Marketing

This time of year inspires reflection and appreciation of things most meaningful to us. For me, this blog (which means those who read it) is a very meaningful thing.

In two and a half years of "braindumping" here, I am continually amazed at the depth and breadth of friendships, learning, experiences, and opportunities that come from this unusual and still emerging form of e-communication.

Thank you, from the bottom of my heart, for reading and contributing to this blog.

To you, wishes for a very Merry Christmas from me and my team members: Jen (left) and Sue (right).

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Made the Top 10 List of ASA!

Asa Thanks, American Society of Appraisers, for including this blog in your "Top Ten List of Marketing and Sales Blogs for BV Practitioners."

The list appeared in the E-Letter, a publication of the Business Valuation Committee of the American Society of Appraisers on November 1, 2007.

Nothing to do With Firm Marketing

7715 Skip this post if you don't want a small dose of off-topic humor.

Young people who didn't live through the 70s like we did keep trying to bring elements of the 70s back into the fashion realm and they don't understand why we "older" folks resist this. Yeah, I too have been drawn to the hip-hugger look and high boots and even peasant tops. But I have my limits and here's exactly why...

See this post by 15 Minute Lunch blogger, Johnny Virgil.

He describes stumbling upon a 1977 JC Penney Catalog that illustrates why the 70s are equated with horrendous taste. What the hell were we thinking buying this stuff thus encouraging the fashion industry to keep going in this direction? Now it is clear to see why even the 80s fashions were viewed as a significant improvement!

The post includes not only a large number of laugh inducing photos but the author's commentary is priceless. His post drew over 240 comments. I guess it's hitting a good nerve. Enjoy.

Team VeraSage

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Left to right (front) Dan Morris of CA, Paul O'Byrne of UK, Ed Kless of TX. (middle) Ron Baker of CA, Michelle Golden of MO, Yan Zhu of New Zealand, Chris Marston of MA, Paul Kennedy of UK. (back) Daryl Golemb of CA, Brendon Harrex of New Zealand, Peter Byers of New Zealand, Tim McKey of LA. Not pictured: Justin Barnett, Tim Williams and Scott Abbott.

An historic event, almost all the Founders and Fellows of VeraSage gathered together last weekend in Las Vegas to discuss the think tank, progress of our quest, and future purpose of our organization. More details soon (at Verasage.com).

St Louis Bloggers

Gathering My favorite two-city working-mom and delightful blogger, Marijean Jaggers has announced a St Louis blogger drink-fest gathering. 

Marijean writes the uplifting, smart and hysterical STL Working Mom and also Where Do You Stand, a newish blog by Standing Partnership, a St Louis PR firm for whom she works (from Charlottesville, VA...long story, read her blog...). Many of you will remember Marijean from her thoroughly enjoyable shopping column for the Post.

First of all, I can't wait to meet Marijean in person. But I'm also looking forward to meeting others who know and admire her.

Also, it's high time for our previous St. Louis bloggin' fools to reconnect in person. So, Mary Ann Richmond, Scott Ginsberg, Dennis Kennedy, George Lenard, Evan Schaeffer, Matt Homann, Randy Holloway...what say you?

And, I hope Bionic Beauty (local shopping/beauty tip queen) will come, too. I think you and Marijean will get a long great!

Anybody else?

My Family Just Grew by One

0_jmsmPersonal posts are a rarity for me, but this is news worthy of sharing. I've been a bit busy lately and a memorable summer is capped off with a new addition.

Much easier than the normal way of getting a new kid, my son got married. Now we have five!

Congratulations Jared and Melissa!

Nominated for Blogger's Choice Awards

Just discovered that this blog was nominated (and not by me) for Blogger's Choice Awards in three categories: Best Business Blog, Best Marketing Blog and Best Blog Design (huh?? there are amazing looking blogs out there...this isn't one of them).

Okay, so I'm the only one who voted for me as of now, but what the heck.

If you like what you read here and you want to vote, I'd sure be honored by your support.

My site was nominated for Best Marketing Blog! My site was nominated for Best Business Blog! My site was nominated for Best Blog Design!

So, whadda they say, "vote early and vote often."

You can also nominate other blogs, so make someone's day!

Traveling Light

Overpack_2 I'm not one of those extreme overpackers or anything, but I'm heading off to a meeting in Kuala Lumpur in about a week and I thought I'd try out the experience of packing REALLY light.

I want to know if it's overrated or if I'm happier taking, say, 7 pair of shoes for a 4-day trip...

It's slightly off-topic for my blog and all, but what the heck, it IS vacation season...and useful info for any business traveler.

Hope you enjoy my Top 5 Travel Tip Resources:

One Bag: http://www.onebag.com/
Doug Dyment has packing lists and info like crazy about how to travel light, things to be aware of, and where to find some of the supplies he recommends. This site intrigued me for a couple hours! It is rated by PC magazine as a Top 100 Can't Live Without site.

Seat Guru: http://www.seatguru.com/
Found through Doug's site above, this site shows you what seats to pick and which to avoid--and why--plane by plane, for most airlines. It tells you where you'll have more/less legroom, where you might be disturbed by galley or lavatory noise, and where you can find seats with power outlets (and which type). A really great feature is the mobile device friendly page that loads fast so you can check when standing at the ticket counter as you're switching to a new flight.

Country Codes for international calling: http://www.countrycodes.com/

OneSuite: http://www.onesuite.com
This is a telephone access (global) plan that I have used for at least 5 years. Very reliable and very inexpensive. US to Malaysia, for instance, is 3.5 cents/minute. I just ran a 6-month project with a client in the UK with frequent, long calls and I spent less than $25 on calls over the entire 6 months.

IAN's Shoelace site: http://www.fieggen.com/shoelace/knots.htm
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this has little to do with travel. But if you're planning to do lots of walking, I suggest it is worthwhile. Did you know there is probably a better way to tie your shoes? If your laces untie often, check this out.

Technorati Jump

Hey just a little excitement today...this blog's Technorati ranking shot up about 14,000 *today* bringing it from flirting with the edge of the top 50,000 (for many months) to clearing it boldly at 37K. Cool. Thanks, readers.

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This is NOT an Abandoned Blog

Geez, I've been away for awhile and I'm having severe blog withdrawals!

Was attending the International Association of Facilitators conference held last week in Portland. It was wonderful to visit with my friend, fellow consultant Steve Erickson, there and I ran into a few other accounting industry people, too.

Legocrowd Great conference. Highly enjoyed my very last session on Serious Play With Lego by Jody Lentz. I could really see how the lego/metaphor techniques could help lawyers and accountants see (and feel or experience) the mindshift from thinking in terms of their service offerings to thinking in terms of buyers' self-identities (usually industry sector or problem type). A cool Lego workshop of Jody's is shown above.

As I'm sure happens to you, being away from the office for awhile makes for an e-mail nightmare, if not a terrible case of withdrawals!

How convenient to come across this great article on Twelve Steps to Cure Email Addiction with great tips for taming the inbox. I'll let you decide if it works for you.

Well, back to clearing the ol' inbox... 

Letters From Russia

Tutaevchurch My friend Julie Lindy is doing an amazing and wonderful thing. She's given up three months of her life and is paying her own expenses as a volunteer working in Russia with orphanages, underprivileged children, and the elderly.

Many readers from the accounting industry will know Julie. She was senior editor for INSIDE Public Accounting for several years (formerly Bowman's Accounting Report) and before that was managing editor for Public Accounting Report (PAR). When she returns from her trip, she'll resume her career as a freelance writer, ghostwriter, and editor.

Julie is telling her story and her heart in a delightfully written blog called Letters From Russia. If you know Julie or if you have any interest in gaining insight into what Russian culture is like for a visiting American, you might enjoy reading her blog.

Hate Your Partner?

A little partnership humor for a Friday. Thank goodness I don't know any firms that are this troubled...

Below are three short videos that just appeared on YouTube a couple days ago. They are created by ihatemypartner.com, a company that helps dysfunctional partnerships. Gotta credit them for some great marketing.

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EU Offers Impressive List of RSS Feeds

Thanks to Scott Vine's Information Overlord blog for pointing to this highly customizable (or customisable as the case might be :-) list of EU offered feeds for "rapid syndication":

  • European Commission: press releases of the day
  • European Union: press releases by political domain
  • European Commission: speeches by comissioner
  • European Instututions: press releases from each of thirteen institutions

It Wasn't Me

I'm sure you were wondering so I just want you to know that I am not the lucky winner of last night's Powerball for $254 MILLION even though the winning ticket was sold across the street(!!) from my office.

Can you believe? Do you think lightning might strike twice?

I'm just trying to imagine what *I* could come up with to spend over $8mil a year on for 30 years in payouts...Guess I'll be sticking with the consulting gig...

Both Tagged AND Z-Listed...

Gee, walk away from the blogosphere for a couple days and you never know what will happen...

In my blog stats, I find all these neat, weird links to my blog and trail back to find that Mike Sansone over at the Converstations blog added me, very early on, to the Z-list meme started by Mack Collier at the Viral Garden. Thank you Mike! And Mack! I am cyber-meeting lots of smart, creative people through this process and am discovering some fantastic new blogs!

On the down side, literally, my Technorati ratings steadily decline. I was once upon a time in the top 50,000 but, alas, have dropped from the 60s to the 70s since the Z-list started. That's okay, though becauseTechnorati misses a huge percentage of the links to my blog so I don't give it much credit for accuracy...and the stats aren't important to me, anyway.

So what's the Z list? Mike explained it like this:

In Revenge of the Z-Lister, Mack throws one high and tight at Technorati's 'authority' ranking system. I agree that authority isn't the right word for T'rati's ranking, though it can serve as a barometer for popularity.

Sounds like Mack and Mike have drawn similar conclusions to mine about Technorati...

At any rate, I will post a recent, quite long Z-list after I answer my Tag calling. Harry Joiner tagged the Z-listers (you clever dog, you) and Dianna Huff of the MarCom Writer blog tagged me, too. Being "tagged" means I have to share "5 things you probably didn't know about me." Then I'm supposed to doom 3 more people to answer the 5 things. Not sure I can bring myself to do that...we'll see.

1. I have 4 children--age 22 down to 4 which means that I have given birth in each of the last 3 calendar decades (a trend that will NOT continue). The year the first one left the house, the last one arrived. The main reason I had children is so that I will get grandchildren some day. At least that's what I keep telling myself as two more entered puberty in the last 3 years.

2. I didn't finish high school...instead, at age 15, I took the California High School Proficiency Exam (like the GED) and the minute I turned 16, I legally walked away from high school and never looked back. I immersed myself at Santa Ana College, and took all sorts of fun and interesting classes such as astronomy and physical and cultural anthropology. I loved being treated respectfully and as a grown-up by teachers and fellow students instead of being "baby-sat." Initially, my major was architecture!

3. I had my first son at a ridiculously early age (married and divorced by age 19), didn't receive child support, and didn't rely on my parents for financial or child care help. I overcame some incredible odds by sheer determination--working 2 jobs and trying to finish college. Those years are a blur of tiredness and macaroni & cheese, our luxury meal. And trying to make ends meet on $340 (gross) a week. When I hear general statements that young moms are destined for poverty, to be unfit moms, or likely to have ill-behaved children, it infuriates me. If that's all society expects, that's all we'll get. Expect more, show faith in these young women, and at least some of them will rise to meet the challenge!

4. Enough heavy ones, here's a lighthearted one: my favorite hobby, because it gets me far away from my computer is scrapbooking. I love the 'back to basics' feelings of cutting and pasting. And of focusing on my family and on memories. I'm addicted to this hobby, but haven't had much time in the last year to devote to it. Do you smell a NY resolution?

5. Five things, huh? This is tough. Okay, I've got it! I am related both to Theodore Roosevelt (7th cousins, 3 times removed) and Aaron Burr (3rd cousins, 7 times removed) no jokes please... according to the book Founding Fathers, it's not certain whether he or Alexander Hamilton actually fired first... You've possibly guessed my other hobby, genealogy.

If you're still reading (I know that was about as exciting as a root canal) here is the Z-list. I haven't looked yet at all of them, but there are a lot of very good ones in here:

Creative Think
Soloride
Movie Marketing Madness
Blog Till You Drop!
Get Shouty!
One Reader at a Time
Critical Fluff
The New PR
Own Your Brand!
OTOInsights
bizandbuzz
Work, in Plain English
Buzz Canuck
New Millenium PR
Pardon My French
Troy Worman's Blog
The Instigator Blog
AENDirect
Diva Marketing
Marketing Hipster
The Marketing Minute
Funny Business
The Frager Factor
Mindblob
Open The Dialogue
Word Sell
Note to CMO:
That's Great Marketing!
Shotgun Marketing Blog
BrandSizzle
bizsolutionsplus
Customers Rock!
Being Peter Kim
Pow! Right Between The Eyes! Andy Nulman’s Blog About Surprise
Billions With Zero Knowledge
Working at Home on the Internet
MapleLeaf 2.0
darrenbarefoot.com
Two Hat Marketing

The Engaging Brand
The Branding Blog
CrapHammer
Drew's Marketing Minute
Viaspire
Tell Ten Friends
Flooring the Consumer
Kinetic Ideas
Unconventional Thinking
Buzzoodle
Conversation Agent
The Copywriting Maven
Hee-Haw Marketing
Scott Burkett's Pothole on the Infobahn
Multi-Cult Classics
Logic + Emotion
Branding & Marketing
Popcorn n Roses
On Influence & Automation
Bullshitobserver
Servant of Chaos
converstations
eSoup
Presentation Zen
Dmitry Linkov
aialone
John Wagner
Nick Rice
CKs Blog
Design Sojourn
Frozen Puck
The Sartorialist
Small Surfaces
Africa Unchained
Perspective
gDiapers
Marketing Nirvana
Bob Sutton
¡Hola! Oi! Hi!
Shut Up and Drink the Kool-Aid!
Women, Art, Life: Weaving It All Together
Community Guy
Social Media on the fly
Jeremy Latham’s Blog
SMogger Social Media Blog
Masey.com

Facilitating Groups and Assisting With Change

Seiaf07109_img_2_1 If you facilitate meetings inside of your firm or if you lead client groups in sessions of any sort, you will probably find the International Association of Facilitators to be an excellent resource.

The org has a conference planned Mar 7-10 in Portland, Oregon. The keynote speaker will be Dan Cohen, a principal with Deloitte Consulting, and co-author with John Kotter of best seller "The Heart of Change."

Two "sound bites" from Cohen's MBA presentation at U of Texas, Austin:

On what to remember:
If you remember nothing else I’ve said today, remember this: fear, anger, and complacency. These emotions are what stops change in its tracks. It’s all about a lack of energy in the organization.

On lack of energy in organizations:
Many organizations today do not get people energized. And the leaders don’t get excited, either.

At IAF, Cohen will address the role of the facilitator in change management, transformation and engagement. The session will be followed by an interactive session to generate dialogue about insights gleaned from his session.

Before the keynote are one or two-day preconference sessions. I can personally recommend anything by Michael Wilkinson (former Ernst & Young consultant, now pres. of Leadership Strategies) or ICA -- Institute of Cultural Affairs teaching effective processes and methods of facilitation.

The main conference--themed “The Art and Mastery of Facilitation: Bridging Ideas to Action” includes 60 sessions along the following tracks:

  • Facilitation Academy – Sessions are perfect for new facilitators learning the basics.
  • Advanced Institute – Tailored workshops for seasoned facilitators wanting to dig deeper.
  • Skills, Tools & Strategies -- A variety of methods that you can use immediately in your work.
  • Experiencing and Exploring -- Looking at your work and yourself from a more creative vantage point.
  • Facilitation in Action -- Real-time applications and insights to challenging situations.

Sessions tend to fill up quickly so, if you're interested, mosey over to IAF's conference website* and have a look.

*please note that the on-line registration is a little cumbersome and IAF is working on improving the process, but in the meantime, trust that the conference is worth it so please don't get deterred when navigating the registration...

(In the interest of full disclosure, I am on the International Board of IAF and am IAF's US Regional Representative. I do not benefit financially or otherwise based on members, event attendance, or by recommending speakers who may or may not be paid by the organization to present.)

Add "The No Asshole Rule" to Your Book List

Nahr Two great bloggers, Guy Kawasaki and David Maister, have been talking (on their respective blogs) about a professor, Bob Sutton, and his new book: The No Asshole Rule: Building a Civilized Workplace and Surviving One that Isn't.

Author, Bob Sutton, has his own blog that is quite good called Work Matters. In a recent post on this blog, Bob appreciates David's take on his book's concepts. Bob writes:

I was especially struck by his thoughts about the situations that turn typically civilized people into temporary assholes. See his post for the complete set of comments, but it is worth repeating his initial list below. As I went through it, it certainly described the times when my inner jerk has reared its ugly head.

And Guy Kawasaki writes a nice piece sharing Bob's "dirty dozen" list of "everyday asshole actions"

    1. Personal insults
    2. Invading one’s personal territory
    3. Uninvited personal contact
    4. Threats and intimidation, both verbal and non-verbal
    5. Sarcastic jokes and teasing used as insult delivery systems
    6. Withering email flames
    7. Status slaps intended to humiliate their victims
    8. Public shaming or status degradation rituals
    9. Rude interruptions
    10. Two-faced attacks
    11. Dirty looks
    12. Treating people as if they are invisible

and then he proceeds to describe how to avoid being one in the future.

Bob's, David's and Guy's posts (linked to above) are all worth the read...

Where in the World is....

Dublinpubsm_1 Several weeks away from the blog... and it's been tough to resist the urge to blog instead of meeting customer expectations.

Note to bloggers/future bloggers: downside of having blog your clients read is that your clients can see when you aren't working on THEIR stuff....  :-)

I believe I have concluded my Summer/Fall '06 world tour. Literally, have been speaking publicly or presenting to clients nearly every two weeks since July. Very different for me because I don't normally travel that much. Not all hard work as you'll note from the pic taken in a Dublin pub. (note the Guiness in the really cool mic-stand-drink-holder behind my head...man, who says the Irish aren't innovative!!)

If anyone has great Road Warrior tips (i.e. how to stay productive and focused despite changing time zones several times a week) I'd be very appreciative as I have a feeling this is going to become more necessary for me to master.

At any rate, glad to be back with you...

AWOB

Homework I am having major blog withdrawals. Wish I could say I was on some glamorous vacation or something. Nope. Just super busy working.

My son was describing his first couple weeks of high school and explaining how the students have been warned that if they don't keep up on their homework every day that they should expect to fall further and further behind very rapidly. He says they've been advised to contact school counselors to be counseled through catching up.

That sounds oddly familiar to me. I feel several days, if not a week or two, behind! Think the counselors help out moms?

Interestingly, posting to the ol' blog doesn't feel like "work" in the sense of "to do" items that I haven't gotten to. Instead, I've been craving the therapeutic "space" of thinking and writing.

Isn't it sad when we become too busy to think? Scary, actually.

Must make time to think. Will try to do so more often here both for sanity and to not be "Absent With Out Blog."

Thanks for sticking with me...I've noticed subscribers haven't dropped, just search-engine hits.

And They're Off...

0_j_1 One off to Korea, one started high-school, another began 7th grade.

It's been quite a week.

The little one starts kindergarten next week. The years go so fast...

I remember when this one (pictured) started kindergarten like it was yesterday...and he turns 22 on Monday. <sigh>

I don't make very many personal posts, but I think this week changes me a bit and it seems important to note it. Ever have one of those weeks?

Aug 8 St Louis Event for Creative Thinkers

0004_small1Calling all creative thinkers in or near St. Louis...

Matt Homann is launching the first in what is sure to be a successful series of events. It's affectionately called the Soulard Idea Market and you can read about it here, on Matt's blog.

He says it's for: bloggers, lawyers, entrepreneurs, speakers, consultants, designers, webmasters, writers, artists, salespersons, technologists, or ??.

5:30 p.m. to ?, come on over. Close to 30 are already signed up. Matt's famous for the unconference events known as LexThink and BlawgThink. Great space, mind-opening format. Come check it out and be part of the newest chapter in unconferencing.

See you there!

Choices Consultants Make

I just HAVE to weigh in on David Maister's post Do You Dispense Useless Pills?

David writes about having made the choice not just to do what potential clients ask...selling them what they want even if those solutions don't work (or if they aren't ready for it?). He talks about walking away from the business rather than just performing the service knowing it won't be effective.

He cites a reader who describes that trainers will be a lot poorer if declining opportunities to do things even if they know they will be wasteful or ineffective.

His example is training, but I see high applicability to consulting. I made the choice when starting my business seven years ago to decline creating strategies or implementing plans that won't lead to sought results. (And we are indeed poorer than our peers who dispense advice, training, or solutions even when they know that they won't stick.)

For us, it came down to two things: reputation and unwillingness to further harm the profession.

Reputation. Those who know me know that, from day one, I've been determined not to be equated with consultants who've become rich charging mega fees for strategic planning, but left those firms with merely a dusty binder on a shelf.

Yes...while consultants cannot be responsible for implementation (unless hired to do so), we ARE responsible for making sure the recommendations we make or strategies we suggest are actually employable, have better than a snowball's chance in hell of achieving the stated outcome, and are assigned to people who are capable and desirous of doing them. If not, they simply aren't the right strategies (for them) and we didn't do a good enough job researching and planning.

Advancing the profession. To be categorized with the consultants who perpetuate reinforcement of the sacred "billable hour" and other such measurements--counter to the improvement of firms--is also against my grain. We don't require firms to change or even beat them up, but we do try open eyes to the negative impact to customer service and marketing that charge-hour-goal and pricing-after-the-work mentalities foster. And by addressing the problems, we work through solutions that improve profitability, customer communications, and increase revenues. We teach focusing on leading, not lagging, indicators.

I like to think we are beginning to bridge a gap. It's beginning to look that way...

Many prestigious consultants to the professions still emphasize tracking productivity and realization as among the most important statistics in a firm. It upsets me because some of these consultants even admit these focuses are counter-productive and have no bearing on future success (it is PROVEN they don't), yet they continue to preach it because it's what firms want, and expect, to hear. And will pay good money to hear.

Consultants have a degree of influence and authority, especially when they are highly visible as when on the speaker or author circuit. If dispensing one-size-fits-all or wrong advice, consultants can do as much harm as good.

Consultants might agree with me that a reality seems to be that few firms are actually ready or willing to change much of anything. After all, professional service firms are achieving great monetary success. Most professionals are making more money than they ever thought possible. Yet the professions are in crisis.

And consultants who aren't part of the solution are part of the problem. Many are cynical, no longer trusting that the professions are capable of changing their ways. (And most probably won't unless they have to, but I sure hold out hope for those who will!)

Though poorer I admit I am, I simply cannot abide by giving advice and selling solutions that won't change what customers desperately want to change. Or that would give the wrong idea about what works and what doesn't.

Maybe it's a product of having been in-house before consulting. When in-house, we become less vocal every year because of politics, getting shot-down, whatever. Personally, I found consulting very liberating because I could say what I REALLY THOUGHT and not have my entire livelihood at stake. (Just one engagement, I suppose!)

For me it is the ultimate in professional responsibility AND enjoyment. Even if riches elude me. So be it.

Court Orders Counsel to Go To Lunch

Court I'm sure only readers from the legal profession will appreciate this...

A law firm client brought to my attention a court decision in Maricopa County, Arizona resolving some challenging behavior between attorneys.

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Plaintiff’s counsel extended a lunch invitation to Defendant’s counsel “to have a discussion regarding discovery and other matters.” Plaintiff’s counsel offered to “pay for lunch.” Defendant’s counsel failed to respond until the motion was filed.

Unbelievable...and absolutely hysterical.